“I hit her because a wife should be afraid of her husband, and this way I oblige her to respect me,� said the man, who was not identified.
via PeacefulMuslimah
Too bloody right too.
Thanks to PeacefulMuslimah for this nuggit of information and welcome to the blogosphere too! The first Qatari blog I’ve come across.
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How to immediately get respect from your wife:
First of all if you want to be a man who is respected you need first to behave like a man. A man who hits any women including his wife is less than the scum on the bottom of my shoe. How about treating her the way you want to be treated!! How would you like it if your boss punched you in your face every time he needed you to do something for him. Give me a break. You are going to to create a monster and believe me she will lash out. There are a lot of women that suffer abuse from the hands of their husbands and they end up in jail because they eventually murder them. No one likes to live in fear and it never causes anything positive
How to immediately get respect from your wife:
SO… what do you suggest?
How to immediately get respect from your wife:
How about mutual respect? Be a man and stand up for yourself, but remember she is your partner and the one you want to be with.
How to immediately get respect from your wife:
I don’t know, but can you tell me how to immediately get respect from my husband?
How to immediately get respect from your wife:
threaten to walk. and then walk. and have him deal with the mess of managing the house, the kids, the finances.
when dealing with abusive men – respect is not given – it is earned. and it is more about boundaries than respect. what is acceptable and what is not.
How to immediately get respect from your wife:
[quote]I don’t know, but can you tell me how to immediately get respect from my husband? [/quote]
Take your favorite (or least favorite) frying pan. Grab said pan in one hand, use the other hand and firmly grasp husband’s head and proceed to smack husband in head with frying pan. Repeat as needed. Husband should start to respect wife in short order.
Re: How to immediately get respect from your wife:
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How to immediately get respect from your wife:
There is no way to get Respect Immediately. However you can train her to give you respect if you kill her with respect and kindness. Show her you can be trusted and follow thru on what you say.
Help her respect you.
What it comes down to is women need your attention. They need to feel protected, appreciated,loved, and desired. They need to feel that you have there best intrest in mind. They need to feel safe to be soft and girly. They need a man. They need a a trust worthy man that commands respect. Other wise you get a woman who turn into your nagging mommy. So grow up little boy and be a man. If you can pull this off your “nagging mommy” will turn into a woman who adores you , respects you, and worships the ground you walk on.
In the mean while, If she yells at you disrepectfully say…. I understand that you are upset and you have a need that needs to be met. I want to hear you and understand how I can help you. However, you are yelling at me and treating me with disrespect. I am going for a walk now. I will give you time to clam down so that you may discuss what you need from me in a rational and productive manor. I will return in twenty to thirty minutes.
When you return hopefully she will have learned she needs to address her needs in a respectfull manor if she wants you to listen. Then return and be ready to listen. Encourage her to discuss how she feels and what she wants without saying hurtfull ego slashing things. Listen untill she if finished and then responed by asking her questions about what she just said to make sure you truely understand what it is she needs.
If she continues to belittles you. Let her know that the hurtfull thing she said is not productive in getting her needs met. Do not say a hurtfull things back as that only brings you down to her level and does not help the situation.
Love , patience, self worth, and being the bigger person will help her to be the respectfull woman you deserve.
This also may help…
If you notice your woman being stressed or less tolerant of your behavior suggest she do something for herself. Dinner with the girls, a nap, a bath, read a book, ect….
Maybe after she distressess she will realize that she was not mad at you at all, but angry at all the responsibilties she thinks she has to do alone. And due to this sense of urgency to accomplish daily never ending tasks-she forgot to take care of herself. Encourage good self care of your woman. She will thank you for it and you will be the big hero. ( and why not load the dishwasher or throw a load of dirty cloths in the washer while you at it). Take initiative to take away one of her burdens. All a sudden she may find you so manly and attractive. There may be sex in it for you.
How to immediately get respect from your wife:
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