My dad is an obstinate man, he’s lost his sight about 13 years ago, but still refuses to use any of the walking sticks we got him. The last couple of years he developed heart problems, but to him, he still thinks of himself as a young(ish) man (he’s 66) and subconsciously he probably thinks that the sight thing and general health will come back to him one day, and his disabilities are just a temporary thing…
That optimism is admirable, he carries on with his life, and he still produces remarkable and very insightful pieaces of art. I’ll share that with you some time when I get the chance to create a special website celebrating this artistic achievements. But that optimism has got to be tied to reality so that his quality of life gets better… which I think he is finally beginning to realise.
Due to some Cobalt radiation he had for another complication 15 years ago, and his heart condition, his electrolytes are shot to hell and back. A doctor he visited a few days ago prescribed something to him to allow his kidneys to rest a little so he can get a better night sleep; he’s up to the toilet about 15 times a night! BUT, even though that mum described his full condition to the doctor, his prescription actually played rather severely with his sodium levels as it reduced it to way below the minimums…
Trying to get up to go to the toilet 3 nights ago, he passed out and collapsed rather heavily on the floor… breaking his hip…
He’s in hospital now receiving good care from a very good orthopedic surgeon who is a friend of mine. He transferred him to his ward and was scheduled to operate on him this evening, however as dad’s blood pressure was dangerously low and considering his various ailments and history, he and the anesthetist decided to postpone the operation for a couple of days while they keep him under constant scrutiny.
So forgive me for not being so active here over the next week of so, I’ll try to pop in from time to time, but I’m sure you agree with me that being beside my dad at this time is where I’m needed most.
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Oh I am so sorry to hear about this Mahmoodie. I will keep him in my prayers and insha’Allah he will be able to have the necessary surgery soon. Give my best to all your family.
Salaam Alaikum,
PM
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Our thoughts and prayers from this side of the world for your father and your family.
Mark
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I’m terribly sorry to hear that, Mahmood, especially since your Father is so young compared to many in his state. I wish him all the best, and may whatever may grant him relief from his suffering, do so with great haste!
He broke his hip this time..
I’m sorry to hear your Dad has taken such a spill. Here’s hoping he recovers.
This same thing happenned to my grandmother about a year and a half ago. It makes you wonder if this is what you have to look forward to when you get older.
Best Wishes for A Full Recovery,
Steve
He broke his hip this time..
thank you all for your well wishes, I shall convey them to dad in the morning and they are very much appreciated… now, it’s time to hit the sack… it’s been a long day.
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be strong, have faith .. and have a good sense of humor … your dad is not obstinate – just has a nice dosage of karamah and self respect … keep his spirits high, and yours will be lifted as well …
sending you lots of prayers and warmth ..
JJ
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I agree Mahmood, keep your tail up.
Also might help to look up Sodium deficiency and a condition called Syncope.
Meggie
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I’ll keep your father in my prayers.
Achillea
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Best wishes to your dad, Mahmood. His artwork is great.
Ash
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Best wishes for recovery to your father and the family.
I’ve been browsing through the album of your dad’s artwork that you’ve linked to, and wow, there’s some great stuff. It must have been quite inspiring being raised by him. By the way, what medium did he use for them?
Anyways, thoughts and prayers are with him.
He broke his hip this time..
So sorry to hear about your dad, Mahmood. Insha’Allah he’ll be on his way to a quick recovery. I look forward to seeing his artwork!
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He broke his hip this time..
Inshallah your father feels better really soon.. Our prayers remain with him and your family..
If anything can be done from my side to help, please let me know..
Ahmed
He broke his hip this time..
Best wishes to your dad for a speedy and full recovery.
He’s okay now
Thank you all for your well wishes and prayers. My dad had a procedure to insert two screws into his hip to get it re-attached. He’s still out and in ICU for observation, but the doctors assured us that all went well and are happy with his condition. He should start walking again in the next couple of days and released soon thereafter.
Our immense thanks and appreciate go to the medical team that took care of him, ably led by Dr. Bashar Al-Sayed,
Dr. Al-HussainiDr. Hussain Darwish, Dr. Jalal and the excellent nurses assigned to his ward. May God bless you and them all.He broke his hip this time..
Salamat,
I tell you those guys from that generation are just hard as nails, and have tounges just as sharp.
.nibaq
He’s at home
Finally. He’s released from hospital and his doctors are happy with his recovery. He’s back home now resuming his bitching, moaning and chimney smoking…. ie, back to normal! Now we can go back to our normal lives until the next disaster strikes! 🙂
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Sorry to read your news Abu Shabab, wishing the very best to your dad for a speedy recovery.
LLAP
Home Sweet Home!
I’m glad to hear that he’s doing well, Mahmood!
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esto mio, muy apologia
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I’m truely sorry to hear that Mahmood, I hope your dad recovers in no time!
It’s sad to know how some doctors in Bahrain tend to give out prescriptions exactly the same way they would solve puzzles. The medical liability law in Bahrain needs a major reform that’s for sure…
Anyway, plz tell him a girl called Nora says salamat wo matchoof shar, and inshalla u get well sooooon 🙂
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thanks Nora, much appreciated…
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thanks man, much appreciated…
Man of Steel
Dad’s first op, inserting 2 screws to fix his broken hip didn’t work so he was back under the knife this afternoon to sever the joint and replace it with what you see here.
We’re joking with him now telling him that in the replacement hip they also inserted a battery and remote receiver so he can be programmed to break-dance by remote control!
He’s doing fine now though.
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Salamatak ya Abu Shabab!
he’s in again
I’m afraid the first op didn’t do it, he’s back in hospital today for another op at lunchtime, this time they’re severing the bone and doing a complete hip replacement, steel rod and ball.
I’ll be away off and on again I’m afraid.
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Our thoughts and best wishes to him for a speedy recovery Abu Shabab, Sal’em Aalay wayyid.